I think, too, that having that sense of "omg someone really cares" can also be scary, as much as we want it.... for me it can be scary just to find something feels "nice". like, am I allowed to think that feels nice or good? you know? all these new things we learn in t and we have to give ourselves time to "digest" it and let it sit with us - become the *new* normal.

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