"I get in and then ppl come over and say... "you shouldn't be out in public because it makes ppl feel the need to do something for you"

OMG Crew, that makes me SOOOOOOOOOOOO GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!! I GRRRR at those ppl for you!!! You know what? Let's all make a pact - from now on, when people have the nerve to say that crap (i can't even type I'm so mad!!!) let's have the NEVRE to respectfully answer back (and we can practice in here!!!).

I'll start practicing...

I'm sorry you feel that you have to belittle people to make yourself feel better. It must be really hard being you.

I'm amazed you can say such a thing and think that it would be ok with me.

Perhaps you didn't learn the lesson, "If you can't say something nice, don't say nuttin at all!" Go watch Bambi again.

Being a human, like you are, it really hurts that you could try to wound me with such words.

I don't need or want your pitty - I have enough self esteem without it, tyvm!

ok your turn =)