I don't know where to put this. I am so out of order right now I could scream in the road. Long story, sorry

Foster kids here for years

Adopted one,had one long term

A lot of the stuff these kids did was hurtful to the homegrown kids, mostly things the foster kids did.

My oldest 17 year old was here since 3.

She hates me, she hates her sister who has done nothing but love her and stand up for her in the most pure way. When this kid became sexually active the homegrown one gave her a hard time because she didn't approve

This kid hates me, she goes with a boy who self harms and tells her she has to save him. If you go away to technical school I will hurt myself and quit school. He doesn't let her speak with anyone, she chooses not to go see a birth sister with whom we are close, he made her feel like crap for going to Fla to see grandparents.

This boy is alot like the birth father who she never knew but knew of.

I have had it. She has lied to us and she has been hateful to me and I am always the bad guy and the boy friend's family do welfare for a living and would love nothing more then to see her pregnant. They want her to move in with them.

I don't care. If she is not a part of this family with our values, morals and ideals on education then let her choose what she will. She will be 18 in 4 months. I am hurt

She gets upset because I don't want her to go camping and sleep in a tent with her boyfriend, boyfriend's sister, and sister's boyfriend?

These people have adopted three special needs young kids and the sister yells and swears at them constantly. She is in her early 20's. She is cruel to the young ones. My daughter doesn't think there is anything wrong with this.

My daughter reports that this father was a druggie with time in jail, she reports nothing wrong with this.

I have been hated by her since day one and I am so hurt and finished. I am always the bad guy.

With my husband's recent disability she has had more chores and she calls me lazy. Okay, I am lazy. CRAP ON A STICK! I pay her car insurance and her repairs and her registration and I work all of the time. I ask her to vacuum and do laundry. The other girl at home does dishes, kitchen and animals. I am so lazy and mean.

I am not involved in the plan

the plan is for hubby to go to therapy with her and tell her if she feels that she hates my daughter and I and that she needs to lie to us about schooling issues then she can go.

It is her choice, go or stay. Staying means loving your sister and being a part of this family. Staying means adopting our family culture after how many years?

errggg!!!!!