wonderful topic, it's so interesting to read everyone’s responses

I always try to go home after work to change from my formal suit to jeans or smth. I do that because when I’m dressed for work, I am the “work” me, I can’t stop pretending everything is fine and all I can talk about is work (which isn’t an issue for me), I don’t have any feelings or any thoughts/insights. I always try to look normal and I try not to wear t-shirts with demons/zombies or other ugly stuff, she already knows I’m a “monster girl” anyway and she obviously doesn’t think it’s the way it should be. I just try to wear something that makes me feel the real me (whoever that is, haven’t met her yet).