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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge
all - interesting to hear your responses - keep em coming!
one thing - "who you present" may be not so much what you want T to think; could it be much more a matter of how it makes YOU feel - comfortable to help with going through uncomfortable stuff; less business-formal, so you don't carry your armor in there; maybe brown/black because I feel down, closed in, unconfiding....
T once said to me, you just ... seem so ... quiet. I said, yeh, but I am IN HERE you know. OF course she already knew that; but it just doesn't seem to convey.
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my sweats and more recently yoga pants-- are my super casual comfy look. this is because every time I go into T i am uncomfy, regardless of what we are discussing. So i wear comfy clothes to help counter act that discomfort- not sure if it really works tho
usually the sweats are for me. the make up and neat hair and jewelry are my effort to hide from T.