I agree with Amazon, wait until you are in the "are we going to be exclusive" phase.

Then I would come with a book or pamphlets from the doc office--INFORMATION. Be positive when telling about it. Don't make it sound like a death sentence, but just another life challange that you happen to have.
You don't have to be scary about it and yet still be realistic and honest.

It is a high mantainence painful dx for loved ones, but if you are a great person, then you are worth it.

And I think Slick is probably a great person!!!!!