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Originally Posted by Rapunzel
T said that I set the whole being trapped by H blocking the doorway scenario up by telling him in the first place that I felt trapped. If I hadn't made an issue of it, T says he wouldn't have stayed there, or kept blocking me when I tried to get out.
And generalized to the relationship, saying that it is my own choices keeping me feeling trapped.
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What! You set it up? Your husband chose to keep blocking you. Why would anyone who is caring do this? And remember he lectured you when you started crying. How caring is that?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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