pdoc knows i put on my "therapy face". he made a mention of it once recently, when he had to call me to convince me to come in, and spoke to someone very different to the person i usually present as in session. i managed to get there a few hours later () and the first thing he said was "ah, you've put on your therapy face".

i typically wear casual stuff - what i would go to uni in. so jeans, tops, dresses, whatever. the biggest concession to not showing up with my therapy face is when i sometimes don't wear earrings. deli not wearing earrings = very depressed.

if i want to convey "wow, i'm happy today" etc i've go this red dress which i wear. it's weird - many guys that i know (including pdoc and T) have made comments about how "healthy" and "happy" and "well" i look when i wear that dress. this is even when i'm dying inside. so maybe it's the colour, or something, but it's a useful thing to know when i want pp to think something about me in particular.