My T only responds if I specifically ask him to. I'm the first client he has done e-mail with, so I think it was a learning process for both of us to find a comfort zone. I do KNOW that if I ask for a reply, he will respond. If I don't, he won't. It used to totally make me spiral out if he didn't reply quickly enough when I asked for a reply, but I am calmer about it now. And if I sense that I am in a place where not getting a quick response will make me spiral, I don't send the e-mail. I type it out and save it as a draft. Sometimes just the writing helps....but if I still really want to send it later on (and I think I can deal with a slow response)then I'll send it later.

But to answer your question...YES, that has completely freaked me out in the past!