sigh.... it didn't copy paste again...
be back in a min..
okay ,, im coming into this late and skimmed through to page 7 . and i came on here to see oranges picture which i haven't found yet ..
this caught my eye from Orange.
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If I thought I was being conned by someone trying to "dangle a carrot of compassion" in front of me, waiting to yank it away for punishment if my behavior didn't change, I'd run. (I read the carrot reference but can't find it now)
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yes this seems so AZZ backward and crazey..Like a therapist who you spend a few years with suddenly up and quits therapy without telling you .
inorder to do what?
see if you'll end up in the hospital? get extreemly angry?
my guess is they need to provoke you inorder for you to learn to deal with the hurt and rage . in a more reasonable manner (????)
So its like taking a dog who has been whipped and chained up for a portion of its life and it barks snarels and bites at other people who pass by orr it spends time chewwing its paw off every time smeone comes near it.
so it goes to puppy school as an adult dog where the course directors taunt it to amost bite and then vaidate the dogs anger but teaches it that its not the canines fault and that biting passerbyers though understandable is counter productive to be with thier new owners.
its like having a broken arm that healed in a painful way and it has to be rebroken and propery set.
what I think is not so great if someone who is not ones therapist trys this stuff on you .
and I think it would be nice if before hand a therapits said . Look we are gonna break a few bones in your heart and soul and reset them so just hang in there .
Thats my rendition of what DBT is like and or confrontive therapy.
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Maybe our issue isn't with the therapy itself, maybe it's with the woman who started it, lol. Wanna go meet her for coffee?  t this late
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Marsha Marsha gottta love her .. one could invite her for a cup and a piece of pie and have the waiter come out and tell her
"we dont serve pie to therapits who tuant thier clients .sorry no pie for you " And you raelly don't look like you need it any way..
see how she responds...
LOL!