I guess what bothers me most is that she spent months convinced I was lying to her (I wasn't). I did side step some issues that I wasn't ready to deal with..... but I was honest. Over and over she nagged me to be more "honest" with her.

She then asked me how I felt about her. I didn't want to lie to her. She didn't let me side step the issue and then she dropped me as soon as I told her.

SHE made it an issue. Then SHE couldn't deal with it, and I get the impression that SHE believes that SHE was wronged.

I understood that she was learning, and I gave her a lot of slack because I cared. However, I thought we were supposed to be dealing with my issues, not hers.

I hate that she did everything she could to make me care..... and then hurt and rejected me, as you said, at the drop of a hat. The entire "therapeutic" relationship seemed to consist of her building me up then tearing me back down and leaving.

I'm sorry about what you are going through with your ex. Hmmmm "unfair, unmerited, uncalled for, just plain selfish and mean and pointless" It's not exactly the same situation, but I see some parallels. I'm glad you found a good therapist for you though.