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Originally Posted by deliquesce
none of this trust stuff, or opening up stuff, or genuine communication or relating or anything. i really like with new-T how there isn't a genuine relationship or anything right now. i just go, we talk about my ocd thing, about me wanting to exercise and blah blah and then i leave. he has said some things which have really hurt me in the past, but i don't really want to address them anymore, because i know it'll open us up a bit to getting closer, or something. i dont want there to be any sort of acknowledgement about 'us', i just want it to be about me and my stuff and no sort of connection that might eventually draw me in and want me to trust that person.
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Are you sure this is want you want? I don't know your "history"--sorry I'm still trying to "get to know who is who on the forum", but how can you have effective therapy without trusting your T? Is your not wanting to trust something you've discussed with your T? I'm just wondering if there is a middle ground with this rather than have your therapy be totally impersonal.
Can you just tell your pdoc what you wrote here and see what he says about it?
Sorry if I'm off track here. Just trying to help.
