((((((((((((( dear deli )))))))))))))))))

with great affection, believe me - i think you are headed down a wrong track here....

avoiding the pain is human nature; it is what keeps people away from, or makes them leave, therapy..... but it doesn't heal.....

this is coming from someone who wishes so much to say what you're saying here, but truly I see no long term good coming from it.....

we are sharing the same space go gently with yourself, be open with T, it will hurt but I know there is healing onthe other side of it.

And come with me today, will you? it's going to be a hard one. I'll let you share P7's blanket, I've still got it