I was going to work today and one strange thought came to my mind. Could it be that T is testing my boundaries? Here is the whole story: T's office is very near to the place I work, so she has seen me in one shop or another several times already. She always tells me during next appt that she's seen me, and I'm always surprised, because I never notice her (partly because I can't remember how she looks, which is odd, but it's another topic). So, when she says that she saw me and when a d where, she usually adds "I wanted to say hi, but this would be unethical as you didn't even show you noticed me". This the part sounds strange to me and what looks like some kind of check of boundaries. She also told me that she felt bad for not saying hi when she last saw me, because i looked really bad and it was obvious I'm up to something not healthy and stupid. Actually, I really was in a state when you just can't account for yourself and could do some harm. She knows that too. And she's the kind of T who could say "hi, what's wrong". Any opinions?