How can I help the little girl to express herself when she's so scared? Everytime I walk into that room with Sian, the little girl comes out to play and she's all happy and smiley, like nothing's wrong... I want to change that, really I do...

If she comes out with Sian this is good. Why is this a problem?

We're going to do some work based around my Adoptive Father. Iasked Sian if we could work on this and explained that I wanted to work on it because I know that my Adoptive Father and I are so alike in teh way that he's always been passive and still is and so have I, but I'm learning to be less passive and such. Also with the way that The Adoptive Mother always beats down on him, insults him, tells him he's doing everything wrong and never does anything for her. He does everything for her.

Interesting..........