i do like winterbaby's suggestion. old-T did hurt me (nothing as callous as what you went through, i think old-T thought he was trying to help) but i terminated in that session itself. i still feel really awful about what went on, and i'm quite angry at him, but i still cannot bring myself to toss his business card out, or at least take it out of my wallet.

(((Exoticflower))) it's the people we trust who can hurt us the most - i think you've learnt that lesson quite painfully . but it's also the ppl we trust who can help us grow, and it sounds like your new T is worthy of your trust. she doesn't sound at all like she takes you, or your worth, for granted.