(((((((((((((((((((amalie))))))))))))))))))))) welcome!

let me start first and say that your mother and mine sound like identical emotional twins. yes, this is abuse. it was then and it is now. you ARE worthwhile. you're a blessing on this earth and anyone who can't see it isn't worth much of your time...including your mother. i now have my mother at a safe distance. it is possible. i'm a bit older than you and it took time and therapy to do so. i'm 41.

PLEASE get into some therapy to gain the insight and resourses that you need to keep yourself safe and realize your adult rights and responsibilities in this life. also, your daughters DO NOT need to see and hear that.

please let me know your decision. therapy saved my quality of life. in this instance, it can yours as well.

be safe,

kd