Lady D, Lady D, Lady D.....
You know Doc John may have a very different reaction that what you may think. You are taking this way too personally. Since this is a public forum it is bound to get "invaded", there is bound to be controversy... it is just the nature of the beast.
Could things have been handled differently? Probably.... maybe... but it matters not at this point. At least they were handled. Its over... done. And, Doc John just might be pleased with how some of the people on this board rallied together, and how they supported one another. And how they tried to bring peace back to the boards. It all depends on how you look at it. Is the glass half empty or half full??