Thank you for the thought... and I understand what you are saying about his spontenaety. as I said.. he is a loving, kind person. A rarity to see in school kids it seems. the immaturity is a given, I expect a 10 year old to be a 10 year old... no exception to my son, but trying to get him to tone it down just a notch is a toughy.. I am looking into a ADHD counselor. Thank you for your comments... it is usually a great thing to have an outside point of view to slap us in the face once in a while, and now is no exception... Too often I find myself too focused in on trying to make things better, I keep hitting the same wall when the door is right there.
Thanks