Lady D, the whole of the responsibility for this board isn't on only your shoulders, hun. It lays on all of us. Some of us aren't threatened by this guy and some of us are so there's bound to be some difference of opinion stated.
It's a good thing! I think, so far, that it has brought us closer together. We've closed ranks as a family. Either way, we're all on the same side; to protect what we have here. Yes, the ride is bumpy right now, but we're all learning from it. The help and support isn't gone by a long shot!! Some of us are learning valuable lessons; we're learning to get along with each other, we're learning just how valuable "community" is, etc. If we hadn't had this upset, we wouldn't have learned much.
You are doing a great job, Lady D. Remember, it's not ALL up to just you.

Relax!
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<font color=blue>This above all: To thine own self be true. --Shakespeare</font color=blue>
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