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Originally Posted by Gleak
As of late though, I've not even so much as tried to get her in the mood because I know we'll have sex when she is ready and it's not as if it's few and far between.. and my efforts are typically fruitless anyway.
I don't know - I guess i'm just pondering over the "routine" type of feel that our sex life has become and comparing it to the passionate and very spur of the moment that it used to be.
Is this pretty typical for couples? Or is it something that varies between individuals? The Routine I mean.
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I would say that while this type of thing is typical for some couple it still varies as to the why and when the sex will happen.... and I have personally found that I started to have sex more with my husband (after he had slacked off from having sex) when I stopped trying and asking him for it.
...\\ maybe you too should try playing the waiting game and maybe this time you will win.
Now as far as the passion goes that was first felt with in the first 6-12 months of any relationship..... its like a roller coaster and you will have to learn when to ride and when to hide.