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Originally Posted by Rhapsody
I would say that while this type of thing is typical for some couple it still varies as to the why and when the sex will happen.... and I have personally found that I started to have sex more with my husband (after he had slacked off from having sex) when I stopped trying and asking him for it.
...\\ maybe you too should try playing the waiting game and maybe this time you will win.
Now as far as the passion goes that was first felt with in the first 6-12 months of any relationship..... its like a roller coaster and you will have to learn when to ride and when to hide.
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Thanks for the reply Rhapsody!
Essentially, that is what I am doing for the time being - I don't really put a whole lot of effort forth (if any at all these days lol) into turning her on. I've found that she's in the mood when she's in the mood and will then put her moves onto me.
Typically, those days are Fridays & Sundays and if I'm really lucky - Mondays.
Tuesday - Thursday she's living in a residence taking care of her clients (However, for the last 3 weeks - she's been working doubles and has been gone from Tuesday - Sunday - Luckily, this week is her last double for a while I'm hoping)
Sometimes, in the back of my mind, I wonder if it's a "control" thing... It happens now when she says it does. My line of thinking isn't always the straightest though.
Either way - it's hard to "play the waiting game" at times. I mean, at the very beginning of our relationship - I was obviously very physically attracted to her as she is quite a stunning woman to look at. (Especially when she thinks she at her worst - no make up, hair not perfect, etc.. I love that homely look on her)
Even now, I feel the same way as she is still just as beautiful if not more-so, and my emotional connection with her has definitely grown MUCH stronger - It's very hard to keep my hands to myself, but I am putting the effort forth to make it happen lol.
As you said.. I'll have to learn when to "Ride or Hide".
Thanks again for the reply!
-Gleak