humor me...

lets just say you had an infected tonail...a really bad one. needed treatment...every week...(i said it was really badly infected)...if it didn't get treatment the potental was it could get much worse and impact your whole body and all its systems. possibly make you so miserable you could feel like dying.

you schedule appointments with your dr every week to get that pesky toe healed. you go and its working. you feel better. you can work, meet your friends, resume life. things are good.

then dr cancels. toe gets a little worse. so does your life.

next appt goes well.

dr cancels. toe health declines.

and so on and so on.

toe never actually heals. toxin stays inside your body harming all the other systmes. is it your fault? no. you sought medical attention for it. eventually you may have to get toe amputated or foot...or leg.

you ask dr what happeened...he says you didn't follow up on care...you say wtf???

see where i'm going...you made every attempt to heal...maybe this dr isn't the right one for you, your toe or your head. i wouldn't let this dr touch my toe...i like and need my piggies. this guy might be the nicest dr in the world but i came into the world with 10 and i'd like to leave with the same number.

there are other t's out there. yeah you have a bond with this one. yeah its scary to leave what you already have. but are you happy with her? is she providing what you want and need?

ask yourself...if you had a bad toe disease and might lose your piggy...would you depend on her to treat you? what if you need surgery? could you depend on her? your psyche is just an important part of you as your tender toe.

you can find a new t...without her referrel...and honestly...given her stellar perfeormance would you really value it?


stumpy & all those tender loved piggies