hangingon, i only read your previous post this morning, & like everyone else was totally shocked!, just couldnt believe someone in her position would react like that, i think the email you sent to her was MORE than fair, you've more than met her half way, very courageous of you.

Its YOU that's being understanding, its YOU that's putting yourself out to try & resolve this, if i was her reading that i would be ashamed, disgusted at myself for blowing it up into such an issue, & causing you so much added hurt, not what you need or deserve.

Like many others have said, my T has never cancelled, ok its only been 3 months, but i know he just wouldnt do it unless it was a dire emergency, you have been so tolerant, she should never have put you in a position that it became an issue, i think your right would it have made a difference if you had brought it up 3 months ago?

"Your unexpressed concern that effected our work", what does that mean, that to me sounds like a cop out, hardest thing is to express ourselves, particularly something like this, what does she expect, she should be acknowledging your bravery & pleased you've raised the issue, & just be concerned at wanting to resolve it.

I can understand you not wanting to start over, been with her 6 months, im sure it feels longer, i hope you can resolve it, move on, & both of you be closer & stronger for it, but the ball is well & truly with her, she needs to take the responsibilty, & make a real effort to put this right

hangingon, you have been soooooo good about this, she should hang her head in shame.....