I have the same fear . The only one in my life right now is my Dad who has a
heart condition , diabetes , depression from loss of his wife . His second wife
that is . His first wife , my mother , died of cancer and so did his second wife.
I just fear I will not have the strength to continue on or the finances to keep
up the house payments. I am not stable enough or at least think I'm not to
be able to handle his passing . But it will happen . That's a definite.
I'll just have to take it one day at a time and hope for the best .