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Old Jun 12, 2009, 10:21 PM
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To some extent I have been there done that; however I am still there with my dh of 36 years. Any marriage that is good for both parties grows and changes. Sometimes the changes seem easy and other times it can be a real struggle. What has helped us the most was talking. . . to each other and on my part with T about our situation. Keep the lines of communication open and be ready to say those hard words. . . 'I'm sorry,' 'It was my fault.' 'I was wrong.' You say that hubby is your bestest friend, and that is great, do fun things with him. And talk!
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