I dunno if it'sjust me thinking this or if I'm way off the deep end...I'm not a feminist and I don't intentionally put men down...but I've realised how much power and control they have over women if a woman allows them to have that power. When I was in highschool I had a crush on one teacher...i was too innocent to understand the dynamics of relationships and how older men can take advantage of a younger woman if they want to....I thought this guy cared for my well-being...i put a lot of trust and faith in his actions....i realised now that he did not care at all for me...or what would happen to me...he said certain things which were suggestive but I didn't understand because i never had sexual intercourse at that age and I thought he was just being friendly or suggesting i was a nice looking girl...but now I realise that he could ahve gotten me into bed if I was sexually attracted to me...and he wouldn't care how this would effect me later in life....it effects me now because I didn't have much of a family to rely on...and for once I felt safe and secure when I was around him....today I can't get him out of my mind no matter how hard I try to move on....my bfs don't compare to him...

my mother also told me about how my niece slept with a manager to get a job....my bf told me that tat happens all the time...i guess i live in a cave because no one told me this...I remember being hit on by managers...but I never took it seriously...I guess now I know better and can take care of myself and no where is best to work...I wish life was not like this...I wish we were all honest and treated everyone with respect