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turquoisesea · Jun 13, 2009, 04:05 PM

I'm sorry I didn't see this yesterday - barely logged in.

I want you to know, I think I know exactly how you feel. I'm in a very similar situation right now, except my family is slightly smaller.

I too need breathing space desperately. And ways to get out. These things are hard to find at home. I'm sleeping in the same room as my sister so even crying is not an option. And even if I"m allowed to sleep in the so called "guest room" - they can barge in at any time too (and they do this often).

First I want to remind you that it's not forever. You'll be leaving at the end of the summer. that seems so far away but at LEAST there's that.

There are also other ways of getting away, I think we both have to be creative. I think it's good that you have a job. I have found that going outside or into an unused car *to keep the sound in if needed* can provide some *alone time*... not the best but at least it's there. You can bring a book or a phone or whateve ryou can think of.

Is there anywhere to walk nearby?

As I type this I kinda feel a bit hypocritical because of course, these things take effort and lots of the time I've had the options but haven't taken them enough. But, it's worth trying to do.

Is there anyplace a block or two or even a few more away that you can go to for some alone time? Going for a walk (you can say you need the exercise and can't bring anyone because you need to pace yourself alone, if it comes up), or finding a place near home to walk TO and go there.

thinking of you and sending many hugs