I wear what is comfortable and as flattering as it can be for me, at this awkward stage.
I find that LL Bean's "sun-washed" shorts are great, along with their polo shirts (no, I don't work for Bean
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I have a few skirts, in case I have to dress up but haven't worn a dress in years. Panty hose (and especially those nightmare control-tops) were banished years ago.