Mom's the only one who cares enough. Dad hates his mom and taught me to, on top of that there is abuse from all my family members *sigh*. soooo.... He barely sees his mom and i refuse to see either of them. so my mom calls his mom daily and sees her every week or so, does errands for her... and yes - passes info along to me that i REALLY don't need to be hearing (yes, I live with mom - don't ask, really long story).

Thanks for your input - it is hard for me to be nice to me atm. Here's hoping tomorrow will be better. Here's also hoping i didn't instill his mom with false hope that i will now be around more often.