she came home with a giant hickie on her neck. Attitude included. Thanks for the support. I am still considering my options in terms of where she can go, at least for the summer, and maybe to finish school. Who knows. She may end up moving in with the boy friend's family. She has had a very different life because of us. She has known things she never would have known and takes it all forgranted. Thank you all for the support and wisdom. It still hurts. She can make choices now that bring her back to the dysfunctional life she knew as a small child or to break a cycle and live a better life where she can be respected and support herself. She's at a cross road.