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Michah · Jun 14, 2009, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by _Sky

Michah it's always disheartening to hear of a member who feels excluded in some way. I'm sorry that you are in that situation, but do suggest that it isn't the whole of the general populus here to exclude.

You may post in any forum, and are not limited to just the one (unless Admin has told you so, which I doubt!) Remember that many members here are a bit leery of new members, or those who don't post much or share about themselves. It's part of their self care.

Have you tried some chats? DocJohn's chats are quite safe...as are the hosted chats (see schedule above.) Do you PM with anyone whose posts you agree with or enjoy? You might try that if you haven't.

Yes, there are some members who might be in a tough spot when you are also on, but stick around and I think you'll find it is a pretty good group of people.

Thanks Sky, you always know how to take the sting out of the tail.......yep, tried chats, but everyone feels like they are yelling......

which is fine because I know they are not, but just not for me, it is terrifying and I am a TERRIBLE typer! Just noticed in my sensitive state, more anger than is necessary(maybe I am angry and thats why it is "there"?) I don't want to psychoanalyse it this much........but in the spirit of triggers, discrimination(perceived or otherwise) is definitely one of mine!

Groups make me feel sometimes like I am being swallowed alive.......it takes a lot of energy.......I also don't want to lose the people I respect on here.......I shall overcome....

Cheers babe......

PS I am not limited to the Borderline PD forum by admin......but after this thread I may be relegated to the corner!!!