My daughter said today that her grandmother likes to get hurt and that she hopes her grandfather catches on fire. she didn't think it was funny or joking, just very matter of fact. That my Mom likes to be hurt and that she hopes my Dad catches on fire. She takes things from kids and hits and kicks and pushes them over and when i ask her why, she says because I wanted to again very matter of factly. She seems to want to hurt people and I am concerned now. She seems to have no empathy or understanding that it is wrong to hurt people, she just doesn't care. Should I be concerned? How can I help her understand that hurting people is wrong, and how can I help her to feel something about it, like feel badly about doing it? Thanks!