oh i don't fit the mold either, but i am proud to be a unique lesbian. I do not drink, have tatoos, display my affections in public other than handholding, only my ears are pierced, none of my hobbies involve bikes or cars, i don't do sports. In my town we have all kinds of meet up clubs for lesbians. So far i have joined the lesbian book club and the lesbian coffee house. A lot of the women are actually a lot like you and me...other lesbians who share a common interest like reading or meeting new women over coffee while feeling accepted and safe and without feeling like a piece of meat...some women are in commited partnership and join as a couple. If you want, feel free to pm me for more info...this idea started up north and is spreading to different cities!