He wants to feel loved wanted and appreciated for all he does for our family. He wants to feel like a man in his home. I feel kinda dumb but It was hard for me to show him support. I didn't know what to do or say. There was a time I wasn't working and was able to stay at home. Home often took him on the road. He felt I should handle the household and be happy I had a man who could support me and wanted me to take advantage of this free time. Instead I expected him to share 1/2 the responsibilities of the house. I was selfish and had a hard time realising it. This has been going on for some time, it's not new. I just tried for a week or so then went back to my old habits. He eventually grew tired and I guess I pushed him away. I would ask for advice and not take it. I decided what things happened at home and not allow him to make decisions. There's more but the brunt of it was I dodnt know how to support him and make him happy despite him doing so much for me.