I'm not qualified to diagnose anyone, but those symptoms sound familiar to me. Take a look at this and see what you think about it?

<A target="_blank" HREF=http://www.socialphobia.org/>http://www.socialphobia.org/</A>

When problems like you describe bother you and interfere with your ability to function in life, you really should see a professional about it. It is scary when you haven't done it before, but it really is not so bad and it will help you.

Good luck!

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