I do feel like I want to agree with Michah, I have found, not so much hostility, but I'm not too regular on PC, I show up when I feel the need for some support in someway - and it used to be helpful, but lately I've found that chats are harder to get into because there's always somekind of "private joke" or "in-conversation" that happens between 2 or 3 people, and everyone else is just left reading it.... which for some people (myself included) is disheartening.... and, I dunno, I posted on the BPD forum asking for some advice, and it took days for a reply, even tho all the other threads around it were getting replies.... I try to give help when I can, but it's hard to give out help when you're in need yourself and not getting it

I dunno, maybe it's a BPD thing, but like I said, it's not so much a feeling of hostility, more a feeling of, like someone said before, a sense of everything being "self-absorbed"

Also, Michah, I hope this reassures you that you're not the only one feeling this way

M_V x