I can totally agree with you TrespassersWill,

I am not femme nor am I butch. I know what you mean though most lesbians I know try to act on the male side. I on the other hand. was a nanny now I work with children doing art. It's all about the children. I do run the other way when they do the PRIDE parade's. They say, "Oh, your still in the closet" or your ashamed to be lesbian. I say yes to that IF one draws attention to self through some other avenue versus showing what they do to better the world and teach the world about GLBT through intelligence. So Yes is my answer!

ThaCrew