It was much more then the housework. I have too much time to think and cant stop. I am driving myself crazy and sometimes think i will never get past this. What im really obsessing over is thinking about him moving on. This past weekend was good he confessed a few things that give me hope. He misses me though does not want to admit it to me because we are trying to move on. He went to a concert last weekend and began to cry when he heard our song. At the end of the weekend he said he had a good time and enjoyed himself. But added this is the way a divorced cople should be. Sometimes I just wish he was a total jerk and just left. But i dont really mean it. I would really be a mess if he did that. Trying to hang on.