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Originally Posted by Jenn1fer82
I have partial complex seizure. My symptoms are more like a blank stare and a fainting will occur. It looks alot like I'm sleep if you sitting up. It can last up to a mintue to 5 mintues. At the aftermath is the worst part because I wake up confused, poor memory, tired, weakness throughout my body and a pounding heavy headache. I don't understand why these few weeks I've been having more random seizures. Usually my seizures come about from not taking my medication or not taking them at the usual time. It could also be physical strain from working outside or working out for too long. Lately I've been doing things right and on time and still my seizures occurs and it is becoming so frustrating because no matter how well I take care of myself the happen anyway. Just a few days ago I had a short seizure while in the middle of having sex with my boyfriend. OMG that was so embarrassing!!!!! Then last night after dinner I was in bed watching tv and before I knew it I had another one, my little sister who is 13 had to take care of me. Here are some of my questions and if anyone knows anything about seizures please respond and help me out.
Does seizures occur more often because you're on your period?
How do you manage your emotional stress?
How do you not feel like such a burden to those who must watch over you while you're having a seizure?
How do you deal with the embarrassment and shame?
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Yes, seizures are commonly associated with hormonal increases during (and just before) menstruation.
Stress is a huge culprit of seizure activity. Different techniques of managing stress work for different people. Some sz's are triggered by sex. Some by exercise. Many by emotional stress. Poor sleep is a trigger for many. Drinking alcohol or using drugs is also a trigger. Not just recreational drugs, but many over-the-counter mends and prescriptions. Depending upon the AED (anti-epileptic drug/s) that you take, you may be seriously limited in med's that you can take. For that reason, all doctors must know the meds you take, and breakthrough complex partials.
The embarrassment and shame suck. I'm sorry.
We really shouldn't feel ashamed of the abnormal brain activity. In many cases, we can't control it. It isn't our fault. Paying attention to your personal triggers is a biggie, and avoiding (or controlling) those as best we can is your responsibility. Talking w/ the doc about your recent sz increase is also your responsibility. If he/she isn't a lot of help or supportive, look elsewhere for a more compassionate and helpful neurologist or epileptologist.
People don't necessarily have to watch over you during a complex partial. It depends upon where you are & your typical activity when one hits. Really, just keeping an eye out for you, to be sure you don't walk out into the middle of the road or start playing with knives or stove burners (that type of thing), and gently guide you away from those things is only real necessity. Also staying with, until you regain full consciousness, would be helpful. They can reassure you that you're okay ~ you didn't do anything "crazy", etc.
Feel free to PM me ~ I've got lots of experience in this area. Hugs to you!
Shez
