Thanks Dayzee, I am thinking that when school is out on the 17th, and after her sister's graduation party the 18th I am sending her to live for 2 weeks with friends who will be strict and not let her see the boy friend. It seems she got some special needs respite money that has to be used now. Guess I will use it for this. If the time away does not give her a better attitude and a better sense of value for herself and us then maybe moving is the best thing. I am not in a place where I want or need more pain.