You know that we all do what seems right at the time like serving him with the protection papers. To be honest, even though divorce it a big step & has its own set of stresses, it sounds like it might be your best solution to ending this crap that is happening to you. Only you know what is best for you, & I'm sure that having MS makes you feel like you need someone around to help you care for yourself...however if that isn't happening & you are less safe that you would be with him, then, you might need to make the decision that will be best for your. I know I am not well physically, & there is a need to have someone help me our alot on a daily basis, but I have been at the point where it may not be a good enough reason to stay married either....is just a decision that is very personal...and you need to keep your best interest in mind.

Take care of yourself,
Debbie