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Originally Posted by TrespassersWill
Deliquesce sorry my post made you feel upset. I did try to fit in with the local lesbians, but they were not accepting of me and would tell me I needed to do what they did. But I'm not a little boy. I don't want to ride bikes and I don't want a dog and call it a child. I used to go out to dinner with them but it was embarrassing. Call me bad if you like. But I found it embarrassing to be with these woman who wore sleeveless tops with 6 inches of sweaty armpit hair hanging out, baseball hat on backwards, arms covered in tattoos and cussing. Come on even most guys do not dress like that when going out. Actually I loathe armpit and leg hair on anyone. Tis disgusting.
I more prefer the company of my straight female friends just because they don't dress in a way that says they are trying to get attention. And they talk about normal life everyday things like what's going on in their life, politics, movies, travels, etc. Whereas the lesbians tend to talk loudly about sexual stuff right in front of everyone in the middle of a nice restaurant.
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*crinkles up nose*
that kind of behaviour would make me really uncomfortable too. maybe it really is just where you live, or maybe there aren't groups for LGBTs who aren't of thats sort of stereotype. certainly, when i started organising other "less blokeish" stuff, a lot more lesbian femmes started popping up to our meetings. that was kind of exciting.
i dont know, though, it was easy for me because most of this happened through university. we also have a big GLBT culture here in sydney - a whole suburb with queer clubs/cafes/reading houses etc. so it is easy to find diversity.