So I'm Irish.....and very very pale. I don't really tan either, I burn, then I go pale again. So I go outside the other day in shorts and my boyfriend goes "wow, we need to get you out in the sun!" and that really pissed me off. I was like "what if you walked in without a shirt on and I said something like 'wow, we need to get you on a diet!'" Doesn't that seem kinda mean? Or am I taking comments like that too seriously? I hate hearing stuff like "oh yeah I think that's cute" when it's about something that's not on me or something I don't have. Like he said he likes abs but its pretty impossible for me to get them. Or he said he hates bangs.....which I have.

I know he doesn't mean anything by those kind of comments but I can't help but feel like I'm not enough (physically) for him even though he tells me I'm perfect all the time.