I agree with Michele. It doesn't really matter if you can't figure out if you are attracted to just girls, or girls and guys alike. Sexuality is very fluid. I consider myself to be a lesbian, but they are those moments when you see a guy and can't help thinking how attractive they are, you know? I find it best to go with your intuition. My girlfriend has told me if she wasn't with me, she'd probably be with a guy instead, and I'm cool with that. Gender and personality are both big factors in deciding who you are going to date.

For your boss's crazy wife -- don't worry about her. There is always going to be those people who think that they're doing you a HUGE favor by belittling your feelings and telling you that you're going to hell. I've found it best to ignore them, because there isn't anything you can say to change their mind. Just be proud of who you are, and everything will be a.o.k.

And as for your mom and sister -- it takes a while for families to come around when you come out. Just give them time, and keep reminding them that you are the same person that you have always been. Love is love.