Parker, we have another mediation session tomorrow at 11:30. He has a habit of sending me last minute important matter letters and wanting a decision immediately. Then he says I can't make a decision and he has to make them all. He doesn't give me enough time to even think about them.

He's paranoid that I'm going in his house alone, because my son used to have a key that he kept on his lanyard with his lunch card. He's changed the locks and won't let the kids have a key while they're at my place. He used to accuse me of going and stealing mail out of his mailbox. Felony anyone?

I'm afraid to let this reach an impasse where we have to bring in a GAL for the kids and be investigated. My ex can talk himself out of anything. I did call the proper authorities and have photo documentation of him hitting her, and Brown Co. Human Services said it was acceptable discipline. I was told he would be recommended to get anger management. He said they never told him that.

He keeps waving his expenses at me and telling me how he took on all the debt and I don't cover enough of the kids expenses, etc., etc. The only thing I don't cover is medical because HE wrote that up in the original settlement agreement. He wants things to stay the same because he knows he is in the wrong. It doesn't matter that my income has increased and his has decreased. He still makes more money. I just want what's fair.

You're correct on why I didn't send the original e-mail. He's kept e-mail from 5 years ago when the divorce was just starting, thinking he can use them against me now. I'm sure he didn't keep the ones where he would ridicule me, call me names, and then tell me he missed and loved me. He tries to paint himself as this perfect man without any flaws, full of every redeeming quality there is, and it sickens me.