I have been married for a little more than four years. My husband just told me he wants a divorce. He has been telling me for several months that he has wanted to leave and giving me stupid reasons for wanting to do so. Finally, a few days ago, he told me he was gay, and that was why he wanted a divorce.

I am shocked and I need support. I posted on the Relationship forum but only got one reply. I am seriously hurting and don't know where to turn.

I am seeing a therapist. My friends and family live far away.