Sky, I'm just afraid that the court will deem him the better parent since he has all these rules in place and makes important decisions in a split second.

Its not that I'm a bad parent, I just have looser rules that are open for discussion and revision.

The mediator said a GAL will be hired and they will dig up all the dirt on both sides and the court will decide where the kids will live and who will have custody. I'm terrified that because I don't possess his people skills that I'll lose my kids and a substantial portion of my income.