A decision has been made to not allow her to speak with him. She has to drive to school so they don't have time on the bus, and we are going to ask the school to try and limit their contact. It is very clear that she is the victim of manipulation, verbal and emotional abuse. Last night my husband heard him tell her that he is so stupid and should be dead and he can't do anything without her. He also told her that his mom wanted to know if she is pregnant. This family is creepy, the son creepiest, and the parents are trying to placate him with my daughter.
He then accused her of playing around with the guys at work in the cooler, then said he had been watching "hot" girls when he was i town. He went on to say that he hates school and wants to quit and why should he go and if she goes to the tech program he will definately quit.

Then, in 2 weeks she is gone for 2 weeks where hopefully she will learn from our friends about abuse etc. She is having therapy tonight and hubby is going, I am getting her info on domestic abuse. And, hubby is telling her how hurt I am that she is hateful toward my youngest and myself.

Wish us all luck.