Thanks everyone.

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((((((((((((Mandy)))))))))

LMo, you should have seen the letter I drafted but didn't send. It was very much pointing the finger back at him, but knowing his habit of hanging on to every stinking e-mail for years and years so he can throw it back in my face, going "Look, look how out of control you are" I thought better of it.

WW, I'm just.......aaaaaaaaaargh...........over this GAL thing. I don't want our entire summer eaten up with legal issues. And I'm totally p*ssed off that I feel like my every move is being watched by him. Cripes! Can I give the kids Tylenol when they have a headache, or do I need to clear it with him first?

Mandy, the part where he said I implied that he pumps the kids for information, what I was referring to was if they went to a counselor it would be inappropriate of him to grill them about what they talk about. Counseling is where they can go and feel safe to talk about anything and not worry that he or I will hear about it. I swear he's afraid I'll find something out about him that's not so redeeming.

He told me he was afraid of our son because he threw a temper tantrum and that he needed to come live with me possibly full time. He said if the kids didn't like it after his girlfriend moved in, they were welcome to stay with me full time. Now that the legal system is involved, he's retracting all of those statements, and I can't do anything about it because it's strictly he said/she said.


He took all my requests, turned them around, and inflated them. I'm saying his demands are even more ridiculous and I won't agree to them, which means he gets out of agreeing to any of my requests. It's a stupid game of chicken is what it is. He's expecting me to jump out of the way first again.